Donor Manager Software

I've just been putting Facebook info into DM, and like that feature. However, I would like to be able to categorize my contacts as to "friend" status. I plan to put in Facebook contacts that are not actually my "friends", including some that are my wife's "friends". It would be good to be able to keep track of which are which, with a category for "not friend / husband friend / wife friend / both friend". Maybe the labels could even be editable so we could put in our names. This should probably also show up on the Facebook contacts list.